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ahbuggrit ([personal profile] ahbuggrit) wrote in [community profile] cranky_old_fangirls2018-03-10 03:04 pm
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fanfic and sex-ed

 

"What Harry Potter Fan Fiction Taught Me About Sex 

Learning to appreciate my chamber of secrets."


"But what about the nonphysical? Where would I be mentally after that? Would my emotional reaction to it differ at 15 years old? What about 18? Would I want to tell anyone? How would people react if I did tell them? Did I care what my friends thought? Rather than simply being told I shouldn't do it, I sat down and pondered whether or not I would ever actually want to. Writing fan fiction meant reasoning through actions and the resulting emotions in a way my teachers never asked for, even after my supposed spouse killed our egg child."


 

A funny piece that I related to in parts. 
yourlibrarian: Buffy Writes Sex The End (BUF-SexTheEnd-ruuger)

[personal profile] yourlibrarian 2018-03-10 06:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, I remember reading this (mostly because of the fate of the soft boiled egg triggering memories of Buffy's "Bad Eggs" episode).

There's been quite a few of these types of articles that have showed up online in the past few years (basically "fanfic was my introduction to/taught me about my sexual self"). But this one does a better job than many of exploring why fanfic can be more useful than the messages teens are getting elsewhere. That's a great quote you picked out.